Have you ever experienced grief over knowing something in your life will never be the same? Don’t worry, I am not talking about death (for once). I tend to get comfortable with the every days of life – the comfort of my own home, my rou…

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Nov. 11, 2022

Uber Chronicles

We are infamous for arriving and departing shows in an Uber. We will not drink and drive, so to avoid stress, worry, and being unsafe, it is just worth it to us. Is it costly? Sometimes. Luckily, we live fairly close to all our frequently visited ve…

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Nov. 3, 2022

Inspiration, Anyone?

I have days where I can sit and write three blog drafts in a row, and I love it. I also have days where I feel like I have absolutely nothing to say or offer, so nothing comes out. I guess that is what ‘they’ call writer’s block. I…

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Oct. 28, 2022

I Don't Know Love

Ken and I decided against having children years ago. When we first met, we agreed to be open to the idea of having children but not force it. We both came from broken homes, we were both coming out of broken relationships, and I wanted to focus on b…

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The last couple of years have forced me to look within, assess outward, and really try to find inner happiness and balance. Covid and isolation, mom getting sick, friends and family dying, people I did not know dying in masses, all weighed on me, he…

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People have asked quite a few times if we have considered putting on more shows. In short, it is a no for me. Ken would put on more shows if I were more enthusiastic about it, but, nah. June 19, 2021 was an absolute highlight for me – one …

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Sept. 30, 2022


Travis Indovina recently suggested I write about the balance between corporate working and personal passions, and how that affects me psychologically. I think anyone could relate to this struggle, especially those of you following Grim. I started w…

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Sept. 23, 2022

Cantaloupe - I'm married

You ever do something so stupid, that you are filled with instant regret and wonder why the hell you did it? Hold my beer. I was around eight, maybe nine, when I ‘played a game’ so asinine it could have ended my life. I was home alone…

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Sept. 16, 2022

Nothing is Permanent

Mortality is interesting. Bear with me, things are probably going to get weird. I have always had a morbid relationship with death. People try to reason with me; you were born alone, you die alone. Everything that lives must die. Fuck that - I did …

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Sept. 9, 2022

Metal Meltdown

A long time ago, before Grim was born, Milkman (Brutal Postman) mentioned a monthly heavy metal happy hour at Record Archive we should check out, Metal Meltdown. I am not sure why it took us so long to go (likely our lack of social skills) but after…

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